April 24, 2019 Joseph Hernandez 0Comment

Everyone has different expectations when it comes to dating, but it’s safe to assume that most people are looking to find “the one.” Dating in modern culture has become almost scientific in its nature; people have access to thousands of singles right on their phones and PCs along with a host of filters that help them fine-tune their search and find exactly who they’re looking for…or so they wish.

Despite the ability to customize your dating options to an unprecedented degree, people still struggle to find a lasting, legitimate connection. Maybe all of the options make it more difficult to find someone. After all, online dating provides the notion that there’s always something better out there, or at least they could be if you just keep swiping.

If you’re ready to put an end to off-beat connections and dead-end dates, follow these five dating tips. Each one will help you get more in touch with yourself so you’re better equipped to find your perfect match.

 

  1. Know Your Deal Breakers – And Stick to Them

Many people who are tired of being single find themselves compromising on dates. They lower their standards little by little, hoping that if they just compromise on a few things that they’ll find someone worthwhile.

When you settle for less in a relationship, you only wind up disappointed in yourself later on. Make sure you have a list of deal breakers and stick to them no matter what. Loneliness is not a reason to use your personal values as bargaining chips.

  1. Don’t Bet on Maybes

If the first thought you have about someone is “meh,” move on. Dating doesn’t work when only one person is invested, and you don’t have the time to waste on people who don’t ignite a spark in you from the get-go.

Don’t date anyone who could be better if only they were x, y or z. Invest your time, emotions and energy

  1. Explore Greater Social Opportunities

Say yes the next time your coworker invites you to an after-work event, and ask your friends what they’re doing this weekend. Sign up for new classes that pique your interest and get to know more people by taking full advantage of local events.

Expanding your social circle will also help make you a more confident person, which your future partner will undoubtedly find attractive.

  1. Work on Developing Yourself as a Person

Be the person you wish to attract. Chances are that you’re looking for someone to bring excitement into your life, but what will you bring to theirs? The right person for you is already out there living, and now, it’s your job to get out there and find them.

You may not be the most active or extroverted person in the world, but Mr or Mrs. Right isn’t going to knock on your front door. The best connections will come to you.

when you start living the type of life you admire. People are attracted to those that are in love with themselves and the world around them. Be that magnet, but most importantly, nourish your soul by going after all the things you want to do with another person while you’re single. Take yourself out to the movies. Go to that indoor rock climbing gym.

The more you pursue your passions and explore your interests, the greater the likelihood of meeting someone of substance will be. Even better, you’ll find that you spend far less time thinking about being single because you’re too busy enjoying life.

  1. Don’t Let Fear Power Your Dating Choices

When you start to panic that you’re going to be alone forever, it’s natural to throw yourself into a relationship with someone you know isn’t right for you. Don’t think that you have to change yourself to find the right one. The right person is right for you as you are, not who you think you need to become.

Stay true to yourself, and embrace the other meaningful connections in your life as you date. Strive to date constructively rather than compulsively. When you do that, it becomes much easier to attract the type of person you want to be with into your life.

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